Growth Feels Like Fear—But Do It Anyway

Growth Feels Like Fear—But Do It Anyway

Two years ago, I stepped out on faith and opened my first studio. It was small, humble, and just enough for me to build the foundation of my business. I remember the pride I felt signing that first lease—equal parts excitement and fear. I had a vision, and that space became the launchpad for my creativity, passion, and purpose.

Now, two years later, I’m getting ready to move into a larger space. A bigger studio. A bigger dream. And with that comes… bigger bills, more responsibilities, and yes, more anxiety.

Let’s be real—growth as a small business owner, especially as a Black woman navigating entrepreneurship, is never just about more square footage. It’s about the emotional labor, the risks, and the sheer determination it takes to push past fear and say, “I’m doing this anyway.”

The Fear is Real—but So Is the Purpose

There’s this myth that once you hit a certain milestone—two years in business, consistent sales, a loyal customer base—the fear magically goes away. It doesn’t. If anything, it evolves. The stakes feel higher now. I’m not just betting on a dream, I’m betting on everything I’ve already built.

But here’s what I’ve learned: fear doesn’t mean stop—it means step carefully.

As Black women, we’re often taught to play it safe. Be grateful. Don’t get “too big.” But my growth matters. Our growth matters. And this move is not just for me—it’s for the community I serve, the clients I empower, and the legacy I’m building one decision at a time.

Here’s What I’m Reminding Myself (and You) as I Take This Next Step:

1. Acknowledge the Fear—but Don’t Let It Drive the Car

Fear will be in the car with you—but it doesn’t get to steer. Let it be a passenger. Let it keep you alert. But don’t let it keep you parked. Growth doesn’t feel comfortable, and it’s not supposed to.

2. Make Strategic Moves, Not Just Bold Ones

I didn’t jump into a bigger space just because I was “ready for more.” I reviewed my numbers. I evaluated the risks. I thought about what this expansion could do for my business long-term. You can be bold and intentional. That’s the real key.

3. Ask for Help and Build a Strong Support System

I’ve leaned on mentors, fellow entrepreneurs, my clients, and my tribe for advice and support. As Black women, we don’t have to carry it all alone. There is power in asking questions, outsourcing when possible, and creating systems that support your growth.

4. Visualize What the Next Level Requires—Then Become That Woman

Every step up in business requires a version of you you haven’t fully met yet. I’m preparing myself mentally, spiritually, and professionally to show up for this next level. That means more structure, clearer boundaries, and an even deeper connection to my “why.”

5. Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection

I may not have it all figured out. But I’m moving forward. Every box I pack, every wall I repaint in the new studio, every system I revise—that’s growth. That’s progress. And that’s enough.

Final Thoughts

If you’re standing at the edge of your next move—whether it’s a physical space, a new product line, or a full rebrand—I see you. I know what it feels like to be excited and terrified at the same time. But trust me: you can do hard things. You have done hard things.

Your dreams are valid. Your business is worth betting on. And that nervous feeling in your stomach? That’s not just fear. That’s purpose in motion.

So take the next step—but take it strategically, with your head high, your heart steady, and your eyes on the vision. I’ll be right there with you, unpacking in a bigger space, grateful for the fear… because it reminds me I’m growing.

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